My Diary - A Note to myself dated 30th January 2008
There is nothing you cannot do !
Nothing is above its reach.
In life I've noticed that expectations bring disappointments.
These disappointments stand as an obstacle in our life's journey.The question is
Can a man live without expectations ??
Have you ever tried to look at your inner-self and ask
What lead to the disappointment ?
When you begin to reason what happened you will notice that infact
It wasn't a disappointment at all , But an essential factor for Success in Life !
The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure,Instead of having pain and pleasure use you.
If you do that, you're in control of your life, if you don't - Life controls you.
Anthony Robbins
Articles from 🐝 Fatima G. Williams
View blogI slowly stutter, I gently stand · Life's been hard, I acknowledge with a nod · It's been a battle o ...
Did you know what are the easiest things to do! · Complain! Crib! Gossip! Self loathe! Dream! Imagin ...
Raising Awareness among Women; Pass the baton on to Aspiring Entrepreneurs! · Embrace your true pote ...
Related professionals
You may be interested in these jobs
-
Solution Architect Laboratory
Found in: DrJobEN AE A2 - 12 hours ago
myGwork Abu Dhabi, United Arab EmiratesExperience working with Oracle Health Millennium · Experience over Oracle Health General Laboratory solutions (PathNet - Gen Lab) integration with Health Millennium solutions, at least 5 years · Software implementation work experience, at least 3 years · Health care information t ...
-
Coordinator Client Relationship Management
Found in: DrJobEN AE A2 - 12 hours ago
myGwork Abu Dhabi, United Arab EmiratesDevelopmental opportunities to grow internally. · Gain professional experience in a truly global company that is reshaping the industry. · Benefit from a collaborative approach with in-country specialists to assist you in driving growth. · Support, coaching and development to hel ...
-
أخصائي قلب البيت
Found in: DrJobAR AE A2 - 6 days ago
MARRIOTT International رأس الخيمة, United Arab Emiratesالإبلاغ عن الحوادث والإصابات وظروف العمل غير الآمنة للمدير؛ التدريب الكامل على السلامة والشهادات. اتباع سياسات وإجراءات الشركة؛ التأكد من أن المظهر الموحد والشخصي نظيف ومهني؛ الحفاظ على سرية معلومات الملكية؛ حماية أصول الشركة. الترحيب بجميع الضيوف والاعتراف بهم وفقًا لمعايير الشر ...
Comments
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #27
Thank you Mohammad Azam Khan Yes allowing/acceptance plays a very major role. A lovely comment thank you for the kind words.
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #26
Ali Anani
7 years ago #25
I recall what you wrote to me . One thing I assure you with. I shall never have "reduced expectations" for you; and as this comment reflects everyday my expectations become fulfilled by you. "Our own expectations of others may often conflict with their expectations"- fantastic insights you have my friend.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #24
I recall what you wrote to me . One thing I assure you with. I shall never have "reduced expectations" for you; and as this comment reflects everyday my expectations become fulfilled by you. "Our own expectations of others may often conflict with their expectations"- fantastic insights you have my friend.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #23
Dear Irene Hackett would read your comment and I know she shall be satisfied. Sara talks about the need for a breathing period (space) always. She is more capable than I in appreciating your comment. As for me, I labeled you as a super thinking sister
Ali Anani
7 years ago #22
Ali Anani
7 years ago #21
I am honored by your sharing dear Irene Hackett
Ali Anani
7 years ago #20
I am proud to have Irene Hackett as a super sister. What a great comment that you wrote. I am deep in its honey. "As we learn to observe the fleeting nature of our thoughts and emotions, our internal state of being becomes less dependent on external conditions"...this is powerful and even though not easy to express, but you didn't with such poetic beauty. Amazing you are.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #19
dear Fatima Williams, and not to forget your splendid comments as well. I am happy you found my presentation relevant as much happy I am to find out how thorough you all are. By the way I enjoyed your term expectations on expectations and you are very correct. The second derivative of expectation and this is something to ponder on
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #18
Ali Anani
7 years ago #17
Sara Jacobovici
7 years ago #16
I, too, wish you were able to explain more to me. I continue to learn though from all your works. Thank you Ali Anani.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #15
I am writing a buzz on human cracking because of social media. Your comment dear Sara Jacobovici with the idea of duality stress leading to cracking. This is inspired from your comment and this segment in particular "And as in all experiences, there is the duality of the "thinking" (cognitive/rational) aspect of expectation and the feeling/emotional aspect". Only through awareness we may overcome this stress and its subsequent cracking.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #14
Amazing you are dear Sara Jacobovici with your depth of thinking. I am totally absorbed by your response. I wrote a presentation titled Inflation of Expectations http://www.slideshare.net/hudali15/inflation-of-expectations Your comment would have enriched the presentation tremendously had I read included it in the presentation. I may add that your comment explains many of the phenomena experienced in the stock markets. I wish I were sitting next to you to explain more your comment. I do hope you write a detailed buzz on it. It is hugely an enriching comment.
Sara Jacobovici
7 years ago #13
#17 #18 Ladies Fatima Williams, I envy your energy and tireless dynamic exchange of ideas. Thank you Dr. Ali for alerting me to this very interesting discussion. From my perspective, expectation is all times; past, present and future. The present and future has been touched upon but (unless I missed it) the past has not been given its full value. We often base our expectation on something we either experienced or heard about or imagine from what we have heard. And as in all experiences, there is the duality of the "thinking" (cognitive/rational) aspect of expectation and the feeling/emotional aspect. Disappointment can only come from the feeling/emotional aspect and that is connected to that past piece or preconceived outcome. On top of that is the meaning we invest in the expectation that influences whether or not we get disappointed. That, too, stems from the past. In the triad of; "acceptance, Surrender. Non-resistance", I would integrate the three and call it "allowing". Being in the state of allowing is the awareness of what is, and allowing it to be, and what isn't, and allowing it not to be. From within this state, we can then imagine where the next step would take us out of this expectation and outcome towards another. Reminds me of a past discussion of "flow".
Ali Anani
7 years ago #12
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #11
Ali Anani This statement gives me a compact answer on my question "Expectation is the gap between what we have today and what we aspire to have Tomorrow. It is challenging not to make the gap huge so that it may be unable to bridge it ( Causing disappointments ) , or not to enjoy the present. It sure is a very delicate balance . I am so happy you took some time to comment here because these comments to me are a gem that nourishes my mind. Thank you :)
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #10
Irene Hackett I love what you said especially about " What we learn is: acceptance, Surrender , Non-resistance." This triad is bringing about alot of food for thought. Thanks sweets for the beautiful comment.
Ali Anani
7 years ago #9
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #8
Thaank you CityVP Manjit These words are just ringing in my head. "Appreciation can be challenging, it is not positive thinking, it is appreciation i.e. the truth of joy, not the fallacy of success." Wise words !
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #7
Thank you Franci Eugenia Hoffman Yes I agree with you on goal setting it's inevitable and using the experience as a learning tool.
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #6
Thank you dear Irene Hackett for such warm words so whats your thoughts on a life without expectations.Do you think it's even possible?
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #5
CityVP Manjit
7 years ago #4
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #3
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #2
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
7 years ago #1