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You bring Happiness when you come!

"You come Happiness comes ; You go Happiness goes"" You Come Happiness Comes "


 

I don't know if this is my Aha moment yet. But, what happened today drove me to write this post before going to bed. A friend of mine this evening told me, that I bring happiness when we meet. Has anyone said that to you ? (if they did - Awesome).


I felt genuinely happy. I hear alot of people tell me;


" Your training session was awesome! 

 I love your energy!  

I love the way you interact with people!  

How are you active all day!  

"What keeps you going " and so on. 

I am not praising myself here but no one used the below words to me.

We hear alot of people including our loved ones say  

“You make me happy! but that is completely different to someone saying you bring happiness when you come. 

I was enraptured with that comment.


So I asked in turn “Does that mean I take the happiness when I go “and the answer was "Yes" in giggles. 

Well, I replied "I intend to leave the happiness behind my friend" And there came 

“You come Happiness comes” 

I am here to bear witness to what our actions can do to other people. The people we interact with, in our daily lives.

Just look around at the impact we make on the people around us. 

How can we, channel our energy around to other people, so not just one but hundreds of people feel the same way. In turn, they make your day with lovely words of appreciation and create a chain reaction where they end up doing the same to other people.

Whenever I read a great post or see an awesome picture, I don’t hesitate for a moment to thank them. 

Let them know they're valued greatly and the impact they made through their work.

You must have received many such lovely words of appreciation. It will make your day or if you haven't, my gosh believe me, that's better than the feeling of winning a jackpot. Although I don't really mind winning one!

Well, this comment I got that day made me really happy. 

I know happiness needs to spread not just to one person but to all people, all around the world. Everyone deserves to be happy. But in order to be happy, you must define what happiness means to you?

I'm still figuring that out. Happiness is a state of mind at any given moment caused by an action. 

I believe we were all put here on earth, to achieve something in life and why not start with the person right next to us. Bring happiness and fill their world with smiles.

IMHO I feel that we all need to go the extra mile than what do we normally do in our lives. 

I am doing everything possible to achieve this every single day.

About me

I am a person who loves life and lives to enjoy every single minute given to me. I love to write and have got an opportunity to do so now. 

Thank you for reading this article and I welcome your comments. 

I follow some amazing people here on Linkedin and Bebee, from whom I draw my inspiration to write. 

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Preston 🐝 Vander Ven

Preston 🐝 Vander Ven

3 months ago #36

Here are some words about happiness I love. “You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see, but know that for all these things God WILL bring you into judgment.” - Ecclesiastes 11:9

Sharon mike S

Sharon mike

4 months ago #35

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Lisa Gallagher

Lisa Gallagher

5 years ago #34

#46
Love it, I was singing this out loud as I read it :))

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #33

#45
It's sure does sharing the best part the chorus for those who haven't heard this one by Pharrel Williams " Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof Because I'm happy Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth Because I'm happy Clap along if you know what happiness is to you Because I'm happy Clap along if you feel like that's what you wanna do" Clap along if you feel you find happiness on beBee Because I'm Happy

Lisa Gallagher

Lisa Gallagher

5 years ago #32

#42
I love that song too Fatima Williams! Sometimes when I'm sad, I play that song and actually sing and dance to it. It helps to change the mood :))

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #31

#43
Thank you Nicholas Fester That is absolutely right , it's similar to a comment that lights up an article and gives it life :) #StayHappy

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #30

#41
Very beautifully said dear CityVP Manjit I know the answer and I just love the way you explain it. Thank you ☺ I love the happiness song by Pharrel Williams.

CityVP Manjit

CityVP Manjit

5 years ago #29

#40
Dear Fatima, where else does happiness start or end other than within ourselves. It is we who have made it a thing by trying to make it a having rather than a being. One day my mother will pass from this world and it will not be a happy day and on that day the gift of sadness will be more accessible than the gift of happiness. That I can access that within me means that it can either be a blessing (a gift) or a curse (a theft). Happiness as a curse is not at all the same thing as happiness as a blessing. Happiness is not a simple off and on switch and it is nothing without sadness, it is a flow that emerges from within, which is what makes the pursuit of happiness an endless chase of vanity. The greatest vanity of all is to explain happiness when we are happy. If we need to go look for happiness in other things or people, all we will find there are the symbols and expressions of their vanity, and not our bliss. Take the Woodkids remix [Unhappy Version) of Pharrel Williams song Happy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AyBFx18E6O4 - whatever you feel, whatever it triggers, how it effects you begins with what it evokes in you. This is what Socrates meant by "Know Thyself" - so why use my language or experiences of happiness - when they are within you and yours to discover? This means your question is a rhetorical question, which means you already know the answer, but are you ready for the practice, a practice that is yours to discover.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #28

#37
Thanks CityVP Manjit All our emotions are very important to each one of us. But do we really need to go looking for happiness in other things or people , can happiness not start with oneself ?

mohammed khalaf

mohammed khalaf

5 years ago #27

you not amateur ,you is professional and hope you more progress

CityVP Manjit

CityVP Manjit

5 years ago #26

If I get asked if happiness is important to me, this is like asking me "which of your children do you love?", but I reply "I love all my emotions" and unless I can love all of them, how can one of them be more important? It is when we hate some or most of our emotions that we are most likely to be in a search for happiness but searching for happiness is like getting on a rocket ship and head out into the distant Universe so that we can find Earth.

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #25

#35
Thank you Deb Helfrich Your comment is like honey to my beBee ears 🤗🤗🤗🤗 Stay Happy always

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #24

#31
Thank you Irene Hackett for being so sweet in person and words :) A virtual high five 🖐🏻🖐🏻🖐🏻🖐🏻🖐🏻 to you and yes we are kindred spirits trying to live our lovely lives with Love in action :) Stay Happy and a big HUG to you .

Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee

#31
to beBee is love in action. How sweet you are Irene Irene Hackett!

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #22

I changed the image in the buzz to make it more lively, like the people reading it :)

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #21

Thank you debasish majumder I'm glad your Happy ! I guess this might inspire you to write a poem on happiness. Right now all I feel is " Happiness is to be on beBee "

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #20

#26
Thank you debasish majumder I glad your Happy ! I guess this might inspire you to write a poem on happiness. Right now all I feel is " Happiness is to be on beBee "

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #19

#23
Wow Lisa Gallagher some of my friends @HCL also send me messages saying the same thing. They always wondered what made me so lively and thought that I had no problems to deal with ( Believe me I had many) , but what they failed to realize is the value the power and potential of happiness , what it could do to us in helping us in our lives. With all the sadness happening in the world, the only thing that can keep us going, is spreading happiness. Stay Happy always Hugs 🤗🤗

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #18

#22
Thank you Jim Cody . Happiness also comes through people who are genuine and kind like yourself. Stay Happy always :) I love what you said in your profile about " Life is too short. Hug often and tell your family and loved ones you love them " This is the pathway or ingredients to cooking Happiness in our lives. Talking about Hugs when I left my last job , I hugged one of the house keeping ladies ( Name:Dalanamayendi) to say goodbye to her , thanked her for doing her job which she mostly cribbed about ( LoL ) and I always took up her issues with the admin team ( to make her happy), to show her that she needed to express her work feelings to her seniors to be helped. When I hugged her in her uniform the Happiness in her face was unfathomable and at that minute I realized - the power of a hug. So Happiness and hugs go well together :)

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #17

#21
Thank you Steve Brady for your delightful comment. Yes we should wake up this awareness and get everyone on their feet. Life is too short to not appreciate the time,people and things with us and around us. They are not going to be there always. " So make happiness while the life in you shines " ( tweaked an original proverb) Have an awesome life filled with Happiness Steve :)

Lisa Gallagher

Lisa Gallagher

5 years ago #16

Fatima Williams, what a great message you've shared! I can sense your happy, vibrant, positive energy! I left a job a few years ago and I still have coworkers calling me to say they miss my 'bubbly ' personality. What they don't realize and I remind them, they brought so much happiness to me too, so it was mutual. Thanks for sharing your story, you brought me happiness by sharing!

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #15

#19
Thank you Ali Anani Portable Happiness - I like that reference. Happiness should be epidemic. To spread love is a different thing but happiness doesn't cost us anything. It is in giving that we receive :)

Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee

Dear Fatima Williams- you don't only bring happiness to your audience, but also to your readers. You know how to express your gratitude and appreciation. You are "portable happiness". Happiness is epidemic and you energize people with your happiness. You know how we feel when w smell a fragrant flower and the feelings that prevail. This is what you are spreading the fragrance of happiness around you. As you make people genuinely happy, they shall listen more and be more engaged. So, you made me live the experience and I am sharing it here.

Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador

#15
Thank you Fatima Williams. What a lovely comment. It's people like you that make beBee worthwhile.

Mohammed Abdul Jawad

Mohammed Abdul Jawad

5 years ago #12

Aha....happiness is the essence of life and its presence inspire others to be glad, to take lesson and live well to make their lives joyous.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #11

#7
Anees Zaidi I love the modification of the quote :) " You come Happiness comes; You go Happiness remains ". Thank you for being so selfless :)

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #10

#10
Thank you Franci Eugenia Hoffman I really love reading your work and comments. Your a very warm person :) glad to have met you here on beBee.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #9

#11
Thank you Joanna Hofman I'm so happy to bring that smile on your face. Keep smiling and stay awesome.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #8

#8
Thank you debasish majumder I am so glad you enjoyed it :)

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #7

#7
Thank you Anees Zaidi for such encouraging comment's. It's true that we can change the way a person treats us in simply reacting in the way we would like to be treated. Believe me I've had quite a few experiences where I've made the other's smile as well. Cheers :)

Franci 🐝Eugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador

You know Fatima Williams, I sense you are a happy person. It shows through your writing. Good for you for wanting to spread your cheer.

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #5

I#4 Thank you for the kind words Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD. I do it while I can. I talk to youngsters on the bus , in the metro and try to engage with them while they are having a chat because I easily fit and understand their wave length. To me it's about making a difference in everyone's life while we can. I'm glad you enjoyed the read.

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🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #4

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Thank you for the kind words Margaret Aranda, MD, PhD. I do it while a

Javier 🐝 CR

Javier 🐝 CR

5 years ago #3

true!!!

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

🐝 Fatima G. Williams

5 years ago #2

#1
Thanks Ken

Ken Boddie

Ken Boddie

5 years ago #1

I'm happy you're happy, Fatima. Keep the sunshine coming. 😀

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