The Wait

So you sit and you tell yourself it's gonna be alright. You will get past this phase. It's a trying time in our life and we need to wait it out. You tell yourself that you are strong and this cloud of testing will soon fade away and there will be sunrise. A new day filled with new opportunities will bring you the promises of life! It's on its way.

Now there is nothing wrong in having this motivational talk with ourselves. I do it time and again.  But what are we actually doing?

We mentally wait for the sun to actually rise. Remain in that position/situation that draws out more positive energy from us.Like a leech!  It's like being in a funeral house and you can't do anything but mourn or feel sad for the loss of someone dear. It's like falling in a mud puddle and waiting for the rains to come and wash you off.

I think you get the message. 

The Wait was something man-made! 

We created this ! We need to plan and act the minute we find ourselves in "The Wait" phase of our life. 
Someone famous in Source Title

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Identify :

See what's going wrong and why did you end up in that situation in the first place. 

From the ground you stand to the things around you; scrutinize the people around.  Anyone or anything could have, lead you where you are.

Plan :

See what needs to change and what will move you from this place that you stuck in. The sun rises only in the morning you can't stay in sinking sand just because it's night time.

Develop:

Develop from the negatives. Capture the place you want to be in like a happy picture in your mind. Remember you were given this life because You are worth it!

Forgive :

Forgive yourself, the people and the things that put you in that situation. You don't want to carry that burden of unforgiveness in your heart. We need to leave behind all the negativity that led you to this phase.

Experience:

Feel the feeling! Experience the feelings that will arise if you reach the place you want to be. Imagine and mentally experience that emotion even before it happens. It should be THE way to trigger your brain to think of only the positives that will lead you to the Goal. The place you want to be is just away from you, draw it closer mentally and emotionally. 

Move :

This is the most important part of "The Wait" phase. You need to analyze the results that will be a consequence of that move. The people and things that will be present in the new place. You need to know that there will be no hurt or damage created as a consequence of the move. Happiness and satisfaction should be the target. It should be a place where your self-value, self-determination and self-confidence increases. It should become Your sunshine place.

This buzz -  dedicated to all the lovely people who doubt themselves time and again. As a result get into " The Wait" phase and end up waiting for the sunshine . 

I believe we are the sun that needs to Shine to bring out that Sunshine in our lives. 

We are the colors to our rainbow.
Don't subject yourself to more pain, dissatisfaction as a result of failure to self-realization. 

Get moving all my amazing people out there !

I am my sunshine
I am my rainbow
I am my motivation
I am my All
I shine bright like the sun.Someone not so famous - Fatima Williams

About me

I am a person who loves life and lives to enjoy every single minute given to me. I love to write and have got an opportunity to do so now rarely ( Winks)

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